I am always tuned into symbolism, as you know. During a recent French adventure I was introduced to pithy advice from essayist Michel de Montaigne (1533-1592)
“The most certain sign of wisdom, is cheerfulness.”
Some tips …
Think less.
Feel more.
Ask once.
Give thanks often.
Appreciate everything.
When you feel pain, think HELP IS ON THE WAY.
Wink.
Chill.
Smile.
Advance confidently expecting the best.